I’m a queer, sex-positive therapist who works with LGBTQIA+ individuals, couples, and polycules. I specialize in queer couples therapy and relationships, including non-monogamy and polyamory. I’m also kink-affirming and sex work-positive, and welcome clients exploring sexuality, gender, identity, and relationship structures.
I offer a warm, judgment-free space to talk openly about relationships, communication, conflict, intimacy, sex, anxiety, shame, and the parts of yourself that can feel difficult to bring into other spaces. My style is casual, direct, and collaborative. I believe therapy can be both supportive and challenging, and I’m not afraid to have the hard conversations that create deeper self-understanding, connection, and meaningful change.
Lily Ostler, LCSW (she/her/hers)
OstlerTherapy.com
Lily@OstlerTherapy.com
201-948-4360